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Are Your Affairs in
Order; would anyone know what to do?
Throughout your life, you’ve been in charge
of your money, your home, your health and
your well-being. However, at some point your
ability to remain in charge of your personal
affairs will cease, and you must ensure this ability
transfers smoothly to someone else when the
time comes. If you don’t have a trusted
friend or family member (TFFM), you can
arrange for the services of an attorney,
accountant, or geriatric care manager you
can rely on to administer your affairs and
protect your well-being when you’re no
longer able to do so. Holding on to your
personal information can be costly in the
long run, and may even place your access to
necessary care in jeopardy.
The following information has been divided
into five categories; financial, accounting,
legal, medical and social. Every situation
is unique, and you are always advised to
consult with a professional before making
decisions that will affect your future
well-being, and/or that of your loved ones.
Financial:
Although you may be hesitant to divulge
your financial information, it must be
available in the event you are suddenly
incapacitated by injury or illness. Your
TFFM or designated professional should at
least have knowledge of and access to funds
for your immediate benefit. Consider making
him/her a signer with you, on a joint
account designated for this purpose. In the
case of a sudden death, it can take up to a
week for a Death Certificate to be issued,
and considerable time for a Will to clear
probate. This must happen before any
ownership or responsibility can be
transferred, or funds made available for
medical and/or funeral expenses, so it’s
imperative you have planned ahead. If you
haven’t done so already, you might consult
with your accountant, financial advisor
and/or lawyer to explore your options.
You’ll need to have available, a complete
list of all your assets and financial
holdings, including the name and contact
information for the financial institution,
type of account, account number, and current
account balance. It should include the name
and contact information for any financial
advisor, broker or manager who personally
oversees your accounts.
Money in: All your sources
of income need to be listed, including how,
where, and when the funds are received, with
account numbers and contact information for
the person or entity that administers the
disbursements to you.
Insurance Policies: Note the existence of
all current insurance policies you hold
(auto, home, personal property, life,
health, and long term care) and where the
policies are kept. Be sure your TFFM knows
what health insurance coverage you have,
including prescription drug coverage, and
where the plan information and “proof of
insurance” cards can be found. Keep this
documentation current.
Money out: Don’t let your
good credit rating be destroyed by
non-payment of your bills while you’re
incapacitated. Document each account you
must pay on a regular basis. Include the
name of the account, the account number, if
and how you receive statements, (mail,
online) and how you pay them (personal
check, bill pay, charged to credit card,
automatic withdrawal). Include mortgage and
home equity loans, if applicable, and
payments for insurance policies and property
taxes for your home and automobiles.
Your Credit Cards: For each credit card
issued to you, the following information
needs to be documented:
- Issuing bank, type of
card, account number, and
expiry date.
- How many cards were
issued and where they are
located.
- Name shown on the card
and billing address
including zip code.
- Cardholder’s phone
number associated with the
account.
- Answers to cardholder
identification questions,
e.g. mother’s maiden name.
- If you receive
electronic statements and
account notifications; at
what e-mail address, with
the
user ID and Password for
both the e-mail account, and
the on-line credit card
account.
- Approximate balance due
on the card.
- Whether you pay in full
each month or payments over
time, and if you pay the
minimum due or a set amount.
- How monthly payments are
made; personal check, Bill
Pay, or automatic draw from
your bank account.
- All companies that debit
your credit card
automatically, e.g. toll
tag, TV cable, and internet.
Your TFFM will be unable to administer
these accounts unless he/she is an
authorized user on the account, or has your
online User ID and password.
Note: If you use your computer to access
your financial accounts, be aware those web
addresses, user IDs, passwords, and answers
to identifying questions etc., must be
available to your TFFM for every on-line
account. Don’t forget your computer “sign
on” and password. This information needs to
be kept current, and can be filed in your
bank safety deposit box, or other secure
location, to which your TFFM will have
access when necessary.
Accounting:
Organized information not only works for
you, but will enable your TFFM or accountant
to pay your bills and maintain your good
credit if you’re incapacitated.
Additionally, the Executor of your Will,
will be able to quickly and effectively
settle your affairs if you’re deceased. Many
companies will not talk with anyone but the
account holder, or an “authorized user”, so
it’s a good idea to add your TFFM as an
authorized user to as many of your accounts
as possible. Otherwise, it can make it
extremely difficult to get anything resolved
if you are not available.
Keeping good records is also important for
ensuring your tax return is prepared
correctly, and you can take advantage of all
the allowable deductions available to you.
Should the IRS have any questions, you’ll be
able to quickly produce supporting
documentation. Also, if your tax returns are
prepared by your accountant or tax service,
providing complete and organized paperwork
will save them time and lower your costs.
Keep everything pertaining to your current
year tax return in one place. Based on
previous years’ returns, you already know
what information you’ll need at tax time. If
you have large medical expenses, keep
supporting invoices, receipts, mileages,
etc. Keep good records of all investments
and stock transactions, and if you change
brokers, remember you must always keep your
prior broker records to determine cost basis
when you sell stock. Note who prepares your
tax returns, and where prior year returns
and supporting documents are kept.
Make separate files for all your current
accounts, so you can keep everything in its
place while it’s pertinent, and until it can
be discarded. Some records not pertaining to
tax returns can be useful for other reasons
and shouldn’t be destroyed. For example,
documentation of home improvements and
repairs are helpful if you are selling your
home, and invoices for purchases of jewelry,
computers, electronics, and other expensive
items will help your insurance company
determine value if you should suffer a loss.
Always confetti shred papers containing
personal information, before discarding or
recycling. The following link will give you
valuable information on record retention,
and help you decide what records are safe to
destroy, and when.
http://www.irs.gov/publications/p552/ar02.html
Legal:
Advance Directives are documents that
allow you to make legally valid decisions
about your future medical treatments and
care, if you are unable to make these
decisions or choices for yourself. They are
signed in advance, and will go into effect
when you can no longer make your own health
care decisions. If you have a Living Will, a
Medical Power of Attorney, a Mental Health
Treatment Declaration, or an Out-of-Hospital
Do Not Resuscitate Order, make sure your
doctors, health care providers, and your
family have copies, and the originals are
kept in a safe place where they can be
accessed quickly by your TFFM, when and if
needed.
Please, please, please, do not die
intestate. “A will makes sure your desires
are known, that your choice to handle your
estate is respected, and that undue expense
and hardship does not fall upon your family
when you die.” - David Pyke, “Who Needs a
Will”. Please read his article in our
Articles From the Experts section.
Before you make a will, the individuals who,
by the terms of your will, will be required
to perform a duty, or take on a
responsibility, (executor, guardianship, pet
care, etc.) should be made aware of your
intentions, and given the opportunity to
discuss, approve, or disapprove of their
involvement.
Having made a will, be sure to keep it
up-to-date. Your assets, tax laws, estate
planning techniques, and family situations
can change, and your old will may no longer
represent your wishes, or be in the best
interest of your beneficiaries. State laws
differ, so if you’ve moved, your will may
not be valid.
Make sure beneficiary designations on all
asset accounts and insurance policies are
officially on file, and currently comply
with your wishes. These are effective
immediately upon your death and will take
precedence over the beneficiaries in your
Will.
Although you’ve included them in your will,
your personal preferences for your “final
arrangements” must be known ahead of time.
The following questions need to be discussed
with your TFFM and family members, answered
and documented:
- Have you made and/or
paid for any advance funeral
plans, and with whom?
- Do you have a preferred
funeral provider?
- Funeral service; public,
private, viewing, open
casket, burial, or service
only?
- Will religious beliefs
affect your funeral
arrangements, and how?
- Will your remains be
interred, and if so, where?
- If cremated, what are
your preferences for
placement or disposal of
your ashes?
- Is an autopsy acceptable
to you if deemed necessary?
- Would you allow your
organs/remains to be
donated, or used for medical
research?
Medical:
Whether or not you’re able to communicate
with emergency personnel and/or medical
staff, the more you’ve recorded about your
past and present medical conditions, the
easier it’ll be for you to receive prompt
and effective treatment. This information is
also helpful at an initial visit to a new
physician or health care provider. Always
have written documentation of the following
available:
- Your health insurance
coverage and cards, both
Primary and Supplemental. Be
sure your TFFM has copies,
and can provide your date of
birth and Social Security #.
- All foods, materials and
medications you are allergic
to, including those
medications which produce
serious side effects and
should be avoided.
- Names of all
prescription medication
you’re taking: dosage and
time of day taken,
prescribing doctor, and
name, address and phone
number of the pharmacy that
fills/refills your
prescriptions.
- Non-prescription drugs
and supplements you take on
a regular basis.
- Medical conditions you
are currently receiving
treatment for.
- A record of your medical
history, including dates of
surgeries or serious
illness.
- Immunizations and dates
administered.
- If you’ve signed any
Advance Directives, which
ones and where the originals
can be found. (An original
of your Out-of-Hospital Do
Not Resuscitate Order (OOH
DNR) must be available to
emergency personnel/medical
staff at the scene.)
Relevant copies should be
kept on file in your
doctor’s office, and with
your TFFM. Through advance
directives, you can make
legally valid decisions
about your future medical
care. See Legal section
above.
Social:
Your close friends and relatives would
like to know, if you should become seriously
ill and/or die, just as you would wish to
know the same of them. Those who are taking
care of you and your affairs will find it
very helpful to know who you would wish them
to notify, and how they can be reached. A
simple list of names, with contact
information, (address, phone number or
e-mail) and what relationship the person is
to you will make this much easier to
accomplish. Don’t forget to include your
religious affiliation, alma mater, and any
groups, clubs and organizations you may
belong to, with the appropriate contact
information for each.
All legal documents, and those containing
valuable, personal information of any kind,
whether hand written or produced by
computer, should be kept in your bank safety
deposit box, or secured under lock and key
at all times. Protect your computerized
spreadsheets and documents with passwords,
and discuss all this with your TFFM or
designated professional so they will have
access when the time comes.
Be secure in
the knowledge that whatever happens, someone
will know what to do.
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